According to the CDC.gov, about 45% of marriages end in a divorce. That means that 45 out of 100 relationships end. About 22 out of 50 relationships end. About 11 out of 25 relationships end. 5 out of 13 relationships end. 2 or 3 out of 6 or 7 relationships end. About 1 out of 3 relationships end each year. How can this be?
Most lovers are together for a short time period, they love each other and never got into a fight with each other. They trick themselves into thinking that their perfect for each other. They forget one thing. They never gone through any bad times with each other. When everything is sunshine, then sunshine is everything, so they marry, thinking it will be all sunshine, but then “it” happens.
The husband losses his job or maybe the woman starts growing a little more and her feelings are starting to matter a lot, but the husband has no idea. Maybe just one get so stressed out over something or who knows, but something happens, always does and then the war begins. That fire they never saw coming, “it” came like a storm and when “it” came, the two were not ready for it and they both just walked out on each other. They went from loving each other to hating each other, just because the two didn’t understand each other, as both where growing up more and more into who they personal are, as God created them to be.
The solution is never to walk out, but to sit down, clam down and talk “it” out. God is always saying “Talk it out”. The devil like a rapper, “Walk it out”. Don’t let the devil have the best of you. The truth is that the two of you love each other so much, but it hurts that the one that your close to the most doesn’t understand you, so the anger is created, out of the love, but the love is still there.
This is for dating relationships to. Men are stupid when their young, their still learning how to treat a woman, but I want to give everyone homework. If you’re in a relationship, sit down and spend time with your love mate. Get to know them. Their always new things about us that even we ourselves find out about ourselves.
Divorce is never the solution, it’s that the woman lower their-self under the men and stop trying run the household and let the men run things. That’s God’s way, but at same time, the men need sit down and hold their baby girl and spend time with her. Your alive only once, don’t leave the one you love over some fire that can be put out with water. Fire comes in each relationships, to test if the two are made for each other, and the way to throw water over it is by sitting down, calm down and talk “it” out. There is always hope for the hopeless.
Now, I like to end, by informing you of a marriage you can have with someone who will never leave you. Jesus Christ wants you. He is asking you for your hand in marriage right now. He is on that Cross and gave his whole life for you. Come to him on your knees and receives everlasting life, that brings no pain. He asking you, would you say yes today? He is coming back to get the church “his wife” soon from this world, don’t delay.
Really fast, was just one biblegateway and this is great verse for two lovers. “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. Galatians 6:2”
31 “It has been said, ‘Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.’ 32 But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery. Matthew 5:31-32