What does the family need to look like?

Ephesians 5:21-33

²¹ Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

²² Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. ²³ For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. ²⁴ Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

²⁵ Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her ²⁶ to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, ²⁷ and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. ²⁸ In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. ²⁹ After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— ³⁰ for we are members of his body. ³¹ “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” ³² This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. ³³ However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

The bible is very clear. God is very clear. When he speaks about the family household.

You can watch the TV shows and movies and read all the books in the world to learn about how to raise your kids and care for your wife’s and husbands, but nothing will help. everything goes against the world of God. The devil is tricky.

First, Woman should not work. That is a big problem with many people who desire more and more of money or husbands that are worry about the future, but bible is clear that men need to get up and work the fields. Woman should say at home cleaning and making food for their kids and husband. You see that in God’s perfect world. Adam created to work the land and Eve was getting the food read for her husband. I personally think and believe that if USA was to kick woman out of work place, put men back in, then your see a ton of changes in un-employment. Know what though, it takes one woman at a time, to Submit under her husband and trust in him to provide. Just as the church (God’s wife) trust in God to work for us all things for our Good.

Next, Men Need to get up off their fat lazy butt and go work. Sorry, but its true. Most men don’t even work. Matter in fact they wait for check to come in the mail, from doing nothing. I highly doubt God accepts men not working. my back has a disk problem, hurts so badly, but I’m working o save up money to go to NJ, where God will use me to get merry and start  a ministry up there. I’m working at age of 19 with back pain, to make sure I provide for my future wife and Kids. My desire is to start a business, so other people can work for me, but that doesn’t mean I be lazy and not work, it means, I still go work and help out, stock shelves and do stuff with the employees. My main point is, the men of a household needs to be working to provide for their love ones.

Kids need to respect and obey their parents (As long as its God acceptable). I see books, shows, movies and their asking “Why are kids so disobedient these days?”. Easy answer, because Jesus is coming soon, and its prophecy fulfillment, next because parents never raised them in the Lord’s Way, like the other generations did. We need to raise our kids in that way of the Lord. That does not mean drop them off at daycare church. It means seating down with them and teaching them about Jesus, daily, and discipline them in Godly way. Can’t tell you how man Gangsters  know that go to church. TO bad their not on their way to heaven, all because parents.

Human’s are not kings over the household. They are to submit under their wife, and wife’s submit under the Husband. It’s a cross-road right there. It should that there is no favor on no one. also Husband and wife’s are one flush. Husbands do have the finally say on everything, but be careful because God is over you, so Husbands, listen to your wife, their smarter than you, but have an ear for God’s voice. Kids obey your parents. parents raise your kids and do not treat them badly.

Remember everything, your answer to God if your household is not set up in the right manner of the way of the Lord. So be careful. Each person needs to take a stand right now and submit to where they are to submit.